Last weekend I attended a major reunion of my high school
class. I will not divulge how long it’s been since we all graduated from
Hamilton High School in West Los Angeles, but there’ve been some serious
changes among us: marriages, divorces, births, deaths, expanding waistlines,
hair that changed colors or disappeared altogether. Not that my reunion was
nearly as eventful as the one portrayed in Francis Ford Coppola’s Peggy Sue Got Married. I don’t think
anyone there was time-traveling, and our shindig wasn’t graced by the presence
of a one-time dweeb who has now blossomed into a computer zillionaire.
Nonetheless, a good time was had by all. I’ve been to enough
reunions to realize that the urge to impress one’s former classmates has long
since faded. Instead, we’re all simply grateful that we’re still here, standing
on our own two feet (most of us), and happily spinning stories of what we’ve
survived and what lessons we’ve learned along the way. Admittedly, my reunion
wouldn’t have made for a terribly good movie. The juicy stuff – the diva out to
flabbergast, the drunken confessions at the bar, the reuniting of lost lovers
who promptly decide to dump their longtime spouses – either didn’t happen or
escaped my attention because I was too busy comparing notes about dead parents
and favorite teachers. I must say, I didn’t mind at all that the drama of the
evening was so muted.
On screen, though, reunions can be potent things. The classic
reunion movie, one that remains a touchstone for my generation, is Lawrence
Kasdan’s The Big Chill, released in
1983. It’s not about a formal reunion, but rather chronicles a gathering of
some Baby Boomers who’d been college chums in the Sixties, and have now
gathered fifteen years later to mourn the loss of one of their own. In
reviewing The Big Chill for Time
Magazine, Richard Corliss wrote, “These Americans are in their 30s today, but
back then they were the Now Generation. Right Now: give me peace, give me
justice, gimme good lovin'. For them, in the voluptuous bloom of youth, the
'60s was a banner you could carry aloft or wrap yourself inside. A verdant
anarchy of politics, sex, drugs and style carpeted the landscape. And each
impulse was scored to the rollick of the new music: folk, rock, pop,
R&B.” Corliss’s description fits my
classmates and me as well. We vividly remember the politics of our high school
and college days, the loss of JFK, the fear of being drafted, the music by
which we lived our lives. One of Saturday night’s highlights for me was the
moment the deejay put on the old tunes and some of us bravely bopped to
everything from “The Stroll” to “Unchained Melody” to “Honky-Tonk Woman,” in
defiance of the passing years.
The Big Chill always
puts me in mind of John Sayles’ 1980 indie, The
Return of the Secaucus Seven.. Because Sayles broke into movies via the
Roger Corman Graduate School of Film, I spoke to him at length while
researching my inside bio, Roger Corman: Blood-Sucking Vampires, Flesh-Eating Cockroaches, and Driller Killers. With
$40,000 in the bank, the use of someone’s house, and a gaggle of non-SAG actors
all turning thirty, Sayles chose to craft a story about former college friends
gathering to commemorate the day, ten years earlier, when they all got arrested
en route to a D.C. protest march. The film, Sayles’ directorial debut,
beautifully fulfills an important Corman maxim: take advantage of what you’ve
got.
I’d like to think that my Hami High classmates have done the
same.
I find these reunions bittersweet too. I only made my tenth - as the reunions are held 1000 miles away from my current NC home in Southern Illinois. So I missed my 20th and the impromptu 25th - next year will mark my 30th. I'd like to make it back. Happily, social media has allowed me glimpses into many of my classmates' lives these days, so I already know who's holding up well (the girl I had a huge crush on and platonically dated a couple of times) and who hasn't held up as well (me, mainly).
ReplyDeleteThe Big Chill seemed to be Hollywood's answer to the success of The Return of the Secaucus Seven - kind of the reverse of the usual low budget ripoffs of the big budget Hollywood blockbuster. Both movies are entertaining - but I appreciate John Sayles's effort a little more - for what he was able to achieve with far fewer resources.
They say you can't go home again, but I definitely think you should try to make the 30th. In my experience, the warm of these reunions definitely makes up for their cost. And you might decide you've held up well after all!
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